Driving in Virginia is generally a pleasure. Lots of trees, meadows, vineyards, hills, streams, beautiful homes — and outside of the cities, almost no traffic. Every trip, short or long, is kind of a delight. I sure couldn’t say that about Southern California.

That being said, Virginia drivers are… different. The single strangest example was something that I would never have seen in a million years in SoCal. It was the most un-Californian behavior I could imagine.

We were driving to Charlottesville on I-64 (divided highway with 2 lanes in each direction), and crews were working along the median, removing tree branches and foliage damaged by winter storms. Traffic was pretty light. A light-up sign said the left lane would be closed up ahead, but the closure was nowhere in sight, apparently miles up the road. Everyone filtered over into the right lane anyway, leaving the left lane completely empty. After a while, traffic started to slow and bunch up, even though the closure was way out of sight.

The left lane was wide open as far as the eye could see, but not a single person thought “well, heck, I’ll pass these two miles of cars and then get over”. We stayed, voluntarily, in a single lane for four miles or so, and not a single line-jumper came up in the left lane. In Southern California, both lanes would have been filled to capacity all the way up to the merge point, where they would only merge when forced to do so. Heck, if a SoCal driver thought he could save two car lengths by merging late, there’d be a mad scramble into the left lane.

We still had our California plates, and I briefly considered blasting up the left lane to reinforce some stereotypes and endear ourselves to the natives, but then I realized if everyone was being this cooperative, they’d probably never find our car and our bodies.

After effectively retiring a few years ago, it became apparent that living in Orange County (or anywhere in California, really) would be pretty tough on retirement income. Also, the bulk of our modest wealth was in our home, which had benefitted from the crazy rise in home prices in Southern California. So we decided to sell our home and retire someplace more affordable.

In Spring of 2021, we made a 30-day, 7300-mile, 20-state road trip across the country, sight-seeing and looking at potential places to live. We followed that up with another visit to Virginia and Ohio, where we have some family. After looking at numerous homes for sale by owner, we decided to buy a smaller new home in Palmyra, a little town in Fluvanna County, in the wine country of rural central Virginia. Our home isn’t that close to the town center, but is right next to Lake Monticello, a private community across the road.

We love the quiet, the beauty, the nice neighbors, and even the weather (so far!). While we live in a new development of homes, around us is extremely rural. There is one stoplight within 10 miles. There is beauty in every direction. I worried about being too far from conveniences, but there’s a gas station/mini-mart, Ace Hardware, and auto repair shop within walking distance. Supermarket, church, several nice places to eat, drug store, doctor, and dentist are a few minutes drive to the south side of the lake. Zion Crossroads is a pleasant 18-minute drive, and has a Walmart supercenter, Lowes, and numerous fast food places. Anything else we might need (veterinarian, Costco, Trader Joe’s, UVA Medical, tons of restaurants, etc.) is available in Charlottesville, which is a scenic 30-minute “Journey Through Hallowed Ground”, past vineyards, Michie Tavern (est. 1784), Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello estate, and James Monroe’s Highland estate. Lori’s brother and his family are a reasonable drive away in Fredericksburg, which goes by Lake Anna, through Civil War battle sites (Chancellorsville, Wilderness, Salem Church) and past James Madison’s Montpelier. I don’t miss the 91 Freeway at all!